Pressure Applied

Ever feel like you’re not doing enough ?

Do you feel like your parenting skills completely suck and you have no idea how you’re gonna make it through this life of raising a child ?

Welp I’m here to tell you that you’re not alone .

After me and Nova’s dad split and my mom died , I had no idea what the hell I was doing and how I was supposed to raise her . All I knew was that her little life depended and still depends on me and I was going  to figure it out.

Now I’ve had my fair share of breakdowns and doubted myself on many occasions on whether or not I was raising her correctly.  I even almost called 911 because she was constipated and I had  no idea what to do but gag and cry with her. Luckily I was near coconut oil and my granny answered the phone.

Being a parent is hard work and you might ask yourself are you doing it right.

There’s probably a lot of people telling you no ; but there’s no perfect parent and there’s about ten more mistakes that’s gonna follow the one you made yesterday.

In the past year I’ve learned to stop being so hard on myself and to give myself more credit . I’m not a perfect mom but I do believe I’m a pretty good one .

The pressure of being a parent is intense but just know that doing you’re doing a great job.




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